She was a waitress, cashier and homemaker and of the Baptist faith. She was the daughter of the late Earnie Clifford Rouse and Frankie Marnell Mhoon Pharr. She was also preceded in death by one son, William George Hayden; one brother, James Darrell Rouse and two half-brothers, John Edward Willeford and Tommy Clifton Rouse.
Survivors include her husband, Billy Hayden of Monticello; one son, Wilbur Hayden of Monticello; two brothers, Arvell Rouse and wife, Vicki of Hermitage, Earnie Rouse and wife, Dwanna of Monticello; one-half brother Billy Joe Pharr and wife, Heidi of Monticello; one half-sister, Carly Julian and husband, Troy of Maricopa, AZ; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Condolences(27)
carolyn & ben adams
monticello, AR Saturday, January 7, 2012 WE DID NOT KNOW OF DEBORAH 'S DEATH UNTILL A WEEK LATER. SORRY THIS IS SO LATE. SHE AND I WERE FRIEDNS WAY BEFORE HER MOTHER DIED. HER GRANDMOTHER AND MINE WERE FRIENDS AND ALSO RAISED THE BOTH OF US. SHE WAS A VERY GOOD PERSON. BENNIE AND I STILL LAUGH ABOUT LETTING HER GO ON OUR FIRST DATE WITH US. WE WERE MARRIED WHEN SHE AND BILLY MARRIED AT HER GRANDMOTHERS HOME. SHE WAS A GOOD MOM . HER BOYS WAS HER LIFE. SHE ASK ME ONCE A LONG TIME BACK ..MANY YEARS AGO..IF MY LOVE FOR BENNIE GREW THE LONGER WE WERE MARRIED. I TOLD HER YES BUT EACH DAY I THINK I CAN'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE THAN I DO NOW..BUT IT DOES . SHE LOVED YOU BILLY. SHE WAS HAPPY TO TELL PEOPLE YOU WERE HER HUSBAND. BENNIE AND I TOOK THE BOYS TO CHURCH WITH US FOR AWHILE. BILLY..TO YOU..I KNOW YOU LOVED DEBORAH A LOT. SHE HAD BEEN SICK A LONG TIME. SHE WAS A FIGHTER . THE LORD WILL BLESS YOU FOR TAKING GOOD CARE OF HER. SHE WILL BE THERE WAITING ON YOU WHEN OUR WONDERFUL GOD GETS READY .WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU.SHERRY CLARK
MARTINSBURG, WV Friday, December 23, 2011 Dearest Debby,I will miss you so much, i know you are reading this in Heaven as i am writing it. I was looking so forward to seeing you this year but i believe God needed another special Angel in His Kingdom to get it ready. I can only take comfort in knowing you will be there waiting on us one day when he calls us all to that Glorious Home coming. until then GOD please wrap your loving arms around my special friend you called home.Amen
Marsha Pierce
Monticello, AR Sunday, December 18, 2011 My heartfelt Prayers goes to all of the family. I sure did enjoy our conversations with her when I worked at the nursing home. She will be missed.Marsha Pierce
Linda
Monticello, AR Thursday, December 15, 2011 To all family members, I have had the privilege to meet Deborah and even heard her and Billy sing. My Dad lives at Belle View Estates and he was on the same hall that Deborah was on. She was a sweet lady. I did not know about her until, today. But I want you all to know that I will have you in my prayers. Linda NaronRev. Leslie W. Hoppers and daughter Sharon Barnes
Monticello, AR Thursday, December 15, 2011 I am writing this on behalf of Rev. Hoppers. He did not know until today of the passing of Deborah. He wanted to pass his condolences along to all the Hayden family. Deborah and her husband came to my father's doorway one day and serenaded him over and over with many of his favorite Christian songs. He so appreciated the kindness given to him and may God Bless all the Hayden Family.Meredith Shirey
Monticello, AR Thursday, December 15, 2011 Wilbur and Mr. Bill,So sorry for your loss. Please know we will be praying for you all at this difficult time.
John and Michelle Elmore Jr
Montrose, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 Prayers go out for your family. She will be missed by many.Shane Williams
Wilmar, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 My thoughts and prayers are with All of the family. With all of my Heart.Sharon and Bonner Hayden, Jr
McGehee, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 I want to express my dearest sympathy to the family for their loss. She was a sweet and dear lady, whom will be missed by everyone who knew her. May the Lord give your family the comfort that will be needed to deal with this with the holidays here and the loss of your love one. May the Lord guide you and give you the comfort needed.Sharon and Bonner Jr
Joann McGee
Star City, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 Billy and Wilbur, You are in my thoughts and prayers. I didn't know till I read it just a few minues ago. I would have been at vistation if I had known. May God bless each of you at this time.Shana Wright Wilson
Monticello, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 Wilbur and family.... I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!Paige (Hill) Stell
Monticello, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 To the Hayden Family,My thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this diffiicult time. Know that God will hold you and carry you through these next few days.
Sheila Gardner
Monticello, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 Wilbur and Bill,I am so sorry to hear about Debbie. I have known her all my life and called her my friend. We enjoyed having her in our ladies group at church. Praying for you both.
Vickie
Star City, AR Wednesday, December 14, 2011 Mrs. Hayden will be missed by the staff and elders of BelleView.She touched many with her stories and smiles.Phillip Herring
Maumelle, AR Tuesday, December 13, 2011 I am sadden to learn of the death of Deborah. She was a classmate and friend of mine at MHS. She always had a kind word and smile to greet you in the halls or classroom. We often laughed together over the "drama" of teenagers in the 70's. She had a great love for life.God bless you at this time,
Phillip Herring, MHS 73
Judy Burt Campbell
Monticello, AR Tuesday, December 13, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss. May God Bless and be with you in your time of sorrow.Dennis Wells
Springdale, AR Tuesday, December 13, 2011 Sorry for your loss. My thoughts will be with the family.Carolyn Howell
Monticello, AR Tuesday, December 13, 2011 I am sorry to learn of Deborah's passing. I pray the love and peace of God will surround you during this time of sorrow.Bobbie Ross
Monticello, AR Tuesday, December 13, 2011 I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in my prayers. While working at the Nursing Home, I grew to love Deborah. She was such a joy to be around. May God Bless you all.Lori McCoy
Monticello, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 Wibur,I am so sorry for your loss!! I know you are heartbroken! I am sending prayers for you and your family!
All my love and heartfelt sympathy!
Lori
Becky
Monticello, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 Mrs Hayden will truely be missed at BelleView Estates. We all loved her and she loved all of us. She was just like a grandmother to all of us there. Ya'll are in my prayers and thoughts thou this time of need.Love
Becky Clancy
Harry Densmore
Star City, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 Earnie and Wilbur my thoughts at this time, of saddness are great because Debra was a very wounderful person to know. Prayer for all of the family will sent forward to the one who is our only hope. May God Bless and comfort all of you .Jeri Hobbs
Monticello, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you during this time.MARY ( McGlaughlin )DOGGETT
Warren, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 Our prayers are with all. I knew Deborah when we went to Drew Central School.. God will comfort you all at this time...A friend
MARY MCGLAUGHLIN DOGGETT
Thomas & Barbara Rice
Hermitage, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 Arvell, Vicki and rest of the Hayden family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!BONITA YOUNT
MONTICELLO, AR Monday, December 12, 2011 YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS. SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.G.FORD
bltimore, MD Monday, December 12, 2011 I am so sorry for your loss. May "the God of all comfort" (2 Corinthians 1:3,4) comfort and soothe your heart. His promises, found in the Holy Scriptures, can offer much hope. It assures us at John 5:28,29 that our loved ones will be remembered and brought back to life in the resurrection. Please allow God's Word to strengthen you and help you to endure this most difficult time.